It seems that it is not God we are worshiping

If a God were just and loving…
Why must we fear him?
Afterall, who is he to raise himself above us?
Are we not also beings of value?
Would a God like to be worshiped in fear and reverence? 
If we said a bad word about him, would he stop loving us?
Would he love us more if we talked about him greatly?
Why is it that we as humankind always construct an image of God as fickle and hard to please?
In the end, it seems that it is not God we are worshiping,
But Man.